Outside Babyshower
Outside Babyshower
Is this over the line?
A friend who said some untrue things behind my back…she doesn’t know that I know this. At any rate she just hasn’t been a good friend over the last 6 months. I can’t trust her or count on her and thats the biggest thing in my book when it comes to friendships. I’ve always had her back no matter what.
Well, apparently she is pregnant with her 2nd child. Beings she is too busy with her own life and other more important friends to even call and tell me this I found out through the grapevine. Big slap in the face to me. I am VERY hurt over this. I was pretty much a godmother to her 1st child and now I never see her.
I got an invite to her Babyshower in the mail, thrown by a girl I cannot stand. The funny thing is that I HOSTED her first Baby Shower with this girl and now I’m invited? I don’t think so.
Is it tacky of me to write “RETURN TO SENDER” on the outside envelope and refuse the invite?
Not sure what to do on this but there is no way I’m going to that shower.
Well first of true friends are always there for you. They are always honest, and they never lie, or go behind your back. Sounds like this girl needs to work on her friendship skills. I mean you through her a Baby Shower and yu have ben a good friend to her. YOU are the one who deserves better. It is up to you if you want to send the invitation back. If you do want to work things out with your friend i would call her and let her know how you feel. You need to tell her that what she did was wrong. I hope everything works out between you and your friend.
Best (worst) Baby Shower gift ever!
