Baby Shower Quotes For Girls

I need a good inspiration father quote HELP!?
My best friend’s baby’s daddy is a loser and is not there for his daughter ever. He constantly makes up excuses he’s too busy, needs to install a system in his car, needs to sleep till 4pm everyday because hes out partying all night. He doesn’t work. My friend is struggling and doesn’t know what to say to make him realize this little life is in our hands and needs both of us. He is thinks / acts like a child but he’s 26. My friend doesn’t even get to shower somedays because he refuses to watch the baby for 20 mins. I don’t want to get involved but I want to post a quote on my friend’s myspace that I know he will read that will make him atleast think about being there for the precious child…this little girl is going to grow up and it will be too late for him to be there for her! Please any quotes or sayings etc…HELP please.
It is easier for a father to have children than for children to have a real father.
– Pope John XXIII